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Wednesday, December 15, 2010

The six hardest words to say.

In this world of uncertainity I have found that there are some things that are always certain. One thing I have found that is sure, is if you have a relationship with another person you will have problems in that relationship. You might start out fine, but like all newly weds come to find out, the honeymoon doesnot last forever, and having a loving relationship is hard work. So the question is not if you will have problems, but when will you have problems in your relationship. Be it with your parents, your siblings, your spouse, your boss, your employees, whoever it my be there will be problems. If you do not believe me, it is proably because you do not have a real, honest relationship with a human, and you live alone in the wilderness. So as long as we live and breathe, we will problems and difficulties in our relationships. So here is my suggestion, learn how to say, "I am wrong, please forgove me." Learn how to say it quickly, honestly, and repeatedly. For God tells us in His word to, "confess your sins one to another and be healed." To "confess" means to agree with the one you have injured, or insulted. To agree, not argue that they should not feel that way or that they missunderstood you. So just confess your messed up. It is only after we confess our messes to one another, and forgive one another that true healing and restoration can begin. So eat your crow when it is warm, it goes down much easier.